Am I being overdramatic?
My husband made a friend a few months ago. I'll just call him Bill. My husband doesn't have a lot of friends which is honestly his own fault because my husband can be so rude and people just don't want to be around someone who is always negative and always rude. Bill has said and done some weird things but yesterday it got more weird. I have 4 kids. I have boy/girl twins that are 14, and a daughter that's 10 and a daughter that's 7. I only have one son and bill starts talking about our kids in a weird way. First he accuses me of having a favorite. He says he's your favorite. I can tell. I said I don't have a favorite and he says we all say that. It's because we are supposed to as parents but we all have favorites. Bill then says how he can't blame me for him being my favorite. He's perfect and starts talking about my daughters in a creepy way. Pointing out the "imperfections" in their body. For example, that my 14 year old got my wide hips. My 7 year olds body is thick in the wrong places but she may grow into it. But that my son is conventionally attractive. He got lucky and got stuck with the perfect body at only 14. He made me really uncomfortable on how he spoke about all my kids bodies. My husband got upset that I brought this up. Said Bill is old school and those comments were okay back in the day and don't go around accusing a man who hasn't done anything of being a creep. I think my husband is letting his friendship blinde him but he thinks I'm sexualizing compliments.
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