Having a hard time

Erika • My husband and I are TTC for a year now and are hoping something works out :)
My husband and I have been having an extremely hard time ttc. With his fertility issues from being on certain meds as a teen plus he use to be over weight (over the past year together he went from 395lb to 230lb 😍) to me having an IUD puncture my uterus back in 2010.... It has been very trying. I finally got my periods on track over a year and a half ago after taking birth control for 3 months... We've been trying a year now and I'm worried cause I haven't had a period in November, December, and now going on January. All test are negative thus far.......Any advice is welcomed! Thank you -The Bakers