Feeling like my partner doesn’t respect me?

Alex

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now, and we’ve been through a lot of ups and downs and felt as though it made us stronger at the end of the day. I’m just at a crossroads at this moment considering our views do not line up at all especially with some of the things going on in the world right now. To the point where he just looked at me and said he doesn’t want his kids raised by someone like me because “I don’t know a woman’s place and when to stfu”. That literally had me feeling like I was pinned against a wall, and then proceeds to say that if his daughter(she’s 8) were to be acting “stupid” like I am he’d tell her the same thing. He outright said that if some man were to punch me he’d THANK THEM BECAUSE I DESERVE IT?!? A girl is too stunned to speak.

Other important info: we live together and have a signed lease, I’m 26 and he’s 31. I’ve known him since I was 20 and he perused me for a year before I agreed at the age of 21. He has an 8 year old daughter as mentioned above. He has narcissistic tendencies that were confirmed by my therapist who he wanted me to stop seeing…

Advice?