Ladies am I tripping??

Question

Okay so I’m currently dating someone and everything has been going great besides the fact that he has this gym partner / so called “ friend “ that he likes to hang out with. I don’t have an issue if you have friends, but when it’s coming between the relationship then that’s a problem. Today he says he was going to the gym and that she would be there (let’s call her Samantha) and that they would be going to Swim meets together. Not to mention they also went to Swim meets yesterday ! So again ?? When he told me I’m like okay it’s not an issue, I’ve been very receiving of this. More than I should honestly…. I’m just trying to trust him as much as possible but he’s making it really hard. We don’t live together but I started to notice that lately he’s been taking FOREVER to reply to my messages or phone calls. Sometimes we even go the entire day without talking on the phone … like ? I feel like his so called “gym partner” which I call bullshit on see’s him way more than I do. Anyway, things really took a turn today when I asked what happened to calling me and he told me that’s out to eat with her ??  And that he would CALL ME AFTER ???? Like are you serious ? He claims it was nothing more than a friendly outing but I call bullshit. Ladies am I tripping ?

Answer

Giiiirl I would have broke it off long time ago. You ain’t tripping but why keep HOLDING ON ?! Leave him DO BETTER GET BETTER

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I don't think you're tripping or acting out . And I think possibly he  wanted you to notice how he's been not talking and calling and texting as much he isn't gonna keep his interests a secret to you. He isn't talking so much to you now  cause possibly you have brought it up about the gym partner and he didn't want you to even say anything about it but since you have he probably just becomes annoyed with  that  gym partner cause she won't leave him alone and it's possible he's over shared things with her about you and his life and future and what he thinks of you and how he sees you and maybe her opinion of you isn't good at all cause why would someone not like her . Don't forget that she knows what she's doing talking to a man that's taken/ has a gf. She's stupid and probably annoys him. Cause she should be the one to say hey you have a gf Im not comfortable with you talking about your gf or even hanging out with you cause you have a gf and that's not cool. She is stupid and she should be a real woman and leave him alone and find her own person and work on herself instead of being a stupid hoe. It's not your fault you brought up to him it should have never had to of come down to that in the first place and when it did he become distant with you to show you that you and him don't have the same interests but her and him do and the fact that he knows you're noticing the ghosting and disappearing he tries to say it's nothing wrong cause at least he's not hiding it or keeping it a secret from you but that doesn't sound right and it's not fair to you the gf .  it's like he wants to have to have you  feel sorry for him now the way the gym partner feels sorry for him cause now he can't even talk to you without bringing up the gym partner and the gym partner feels sorry for him for having a gf that doesn't even go to the gym with him or wants to kiss ass to the gym partner and try everything to make her like you and get to know you  and the gym partner is like aww I'm sorry you have a gf that isn't friendly and that is unhappy in y'all's relationship cause she don't want to get to know me . You know what I mean . But don't feel sorry for him . She knows what she's doing and she thinks she has power over him but she's just using him I bet

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You’re definitely not his priority and I’d have a problem with that.

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Is this like a long term friend for years, or someone new? It sounds like he has another girlfriend.

Ladies am I tripping??

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