Am I wrong for breaking up with him?

Had a serious conversation with my boyfriend about a possible pregnancy (I’ve missed my period this week). When I brought it up again, his reaction was unexpectedly cold and harsh he said, “I don’t want the baby, get rid of it,” with no compassion. It felt jarring, especially after he was sweet and supportive before (even kissed my stomach). I expressed that his tone hurt me and that I needed more emotional support, especially in such a vulnerable moment. Instead of understanding, he became defensive and angry.

This kind of emotional detachment and hostility has been a recurring pattern whenever I assert myself or express a need, he turns it into a bigger issue and says he’s unhappy. He also said he feels “mentally abused” by me, which really upset me because I know I haven’t done anything to deserve that label. I decided to end the relationship for my peace and to avoid things escalating further.

Feeling emotionally drained, anxious, and just trying to process everything while figuring out if I’m actually pregnant.

I feel sad because I genuinely love him I feel as though it’s a consistent cycle and he’s not getting it I have to tell him to plan dates , get flowers I’m always taking the lead.

I love him I feel like he doesn’t care or anything is genuine.

I just wanna know am I the asshole for breaking up with him?