I hate my husbands ex wife.

I got married to Steven 3 years ago and together we share 1 child but I’d like to have more and my husband says he’s getting older and want to “relax as a old man” he’s 42 and I’m 36.

Steven and Alissa shared 2 kids together ages 12 and 16. They do the co parenting thing

I’ve always hated this lady she thinks she’s so perfect and dainty it literally makes me fucking sick.

My husband invited her to everything involving the kids and she’s does the same. EVEN WHEN IITS MY CHILD I’ve told him I don’t like her around our child like that and he gets annoyed with me and says I’m being childish when Alissa never treated my son any different from her own. I’ve come home to her in my home making food , watching tv and even giving my kid a bath cleaning up toys you name it she’s been in my house doing it. I sometimes feel Ike she wants my husband. And all these times I’ve make it clear she’s not welcomed. I don’t flat out say it but I definitely do get huffy.

Steven’s kids spent majority of the summer with us but mind Alissa lives maybe a hour away. She’s pop by and her Steven and the kids go out. My husband tells me she always extended the offer to be but I’d rather die. Than go. And sometimes I’d even just keep my kid and we’d go do something

I hate that she’s so involved in my marriage and that she practically replace me as a mom. Our son is 2 and I feel like he responds better to Alissa and when it comes to me I’m just a tit he can suck on he calls her mama

I wasn’t there when he took his first steps she was in the video my husband sent me of our son walking he was walking towards her.

I. Want to ask my husband that we move or have his ex wife not meddle in our marriage. It’s actually making me mad when I think of it. Steven’s kids call me by my name and not mom even tho I told them they can call me lol but they said “ nah you name sounds cooler”. Which basically means no you’re not my mom. My husband and I have argued about this and he says he can’t see eye. To eye with me about Alissa being so involved with us and how she never oversteps and she just wants to see the kids grow.

Am I crazy guys like I legit can’t stand this bitch