My husband makes me feel so unimportant

He doesn’t want to hear my opinions on simple things like where to move the bed or why I like the girls beds the way they are. He’s just like “remember not to argue with me and not to give me reasons. This is just the way it’s going to be.” I don’t get a say. I went in the bathroom and cried a little over something so stupid and small as separating the daughter’s beds. Right now I can’t tell if I’m the problem or if he is.