Head .

Well I'm in a relationship & my boyfriend is great .. Sometimes (don't we all feel like this?) but anyways , I am ALWAYS giving him head .. ALWAYS ! & he doesn't give head he says "ive never done it before so why start now" how do I fix this because I like him a lot & I feel it's kinda selfish to dump him because he's never given head . At the same time tho I feel ways that every night I'm pleasing him yet I'm not getting the same in return . & if he asks me & I say no ?! OMGGGGGGGGGGG he's the biggest flipping brat EVER !!!!!!! Literally he throws tantrums & begs . It's ANNOYING ! I need help 😩 . How do I talk to him about the way I'm feeling ? He's super stubborn . I feel like him & I are both grown & this is 2016 he needs to get over his scary ways & give me what I want 👅💦 but I just don't know how to come at him with all this without him shutting me down ..