Staying with your cheating spouse

Are there any ladies who have been cheated on and decided to stay? I know there are million and one women on here "that leave, have a lot of self confidence or just think it's stupid to stay"  or what ever but this is not a question for you. My question is for women who has honestly been cheated on by their spouse and just trying to make it work how do you cope with it? How did you forgive and forget? Did it change how you see or how you love them? Is there a specific reason you stayed? I was cheated on at the start of my 3 year relationship and I found out later after I was deeply in love and I decided to stay and I have to admit it is extremely hard. How often you think about it changes you don't think about as much but when you do it hurts like the first time. I still resent him at times. But my love for him has never changed and even my trust for him is back and let me say if I ever thought he would do it again I would not have stayed.