Women are brutally honest.... And mean

So a couple of weeks ago I posted that I thought my husband spent a lot of money at a strip club. Well if you read the update I put out I found out it was not a strip club and it wasn't as much money as I thought it was. The bar charged his card twice so he didn't spend the money and we got it refunded. I posted that topic in the heat of my anger and should have just waited to post anything if it was necessary after I talked to him. Yes I was mad at him for spending that money and skipping out of work but that doesn't change the fact that I love him and always will. Some people's comments saying I was naive and that they would be throwing him out and considering divorce are the people who made me feel so much more anger than what was necessary. The only reason I am posting again is to let women know that this is a place for kind words and not bringing people down when they are already in a fragile state. Please be aware of what you post and if you were in their shoes.

Update, me and my husband have now closed on our house and are moved in and are extremely happy being together in our home. There is no one I would rather do this crazy life with than him.