What? What? Up the BUTT?!

Question

Okay so last night my boyfriend and I were watching a movie, and during the movie him and I started making out and feeling each other up. Things started to get pretty steamy pretty fast, we've been together a long time now but we still haven't had sex. But last night we came really close to it. I ended up putting an end to it because when I was trying to be sexy and nibble on his ear I whispered "how do you want to do it"  what I had meant was would you like to go slow and sweet or hard and fast, what he said was. "I wanna take you from behind and put it in your ass". I personally don't like anal and that really turned me off quicker than hitting the light switch. So I kinda kissed him one more time then laid down so he could just cuddle me. I guess that threw him off and I could tell he was a little disappointed. But I just don't want our first time to be done doggy style or up my butt. How can I bring this up in a conversation or even talk about, it. Because now I know that's what he wants, but I just can't do it but I still want to please my man.

Answer

He sounds a little immature if the two of you have never had sex and that's what he comes out with, I'd have the same reaction as you ✋😒
Guys watch too much porn and don't realise you don't just do anal on a whim. There's a lot of prepping. 
If you don't want to do it then tell him straight.

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Just tell him you're not ready to make that kind of step yet. My partner loooooves anal but I'm not so into it. Sucks for him but he gets over it. Aslong as he's not trying to force you just tell him you're wanting to take it slowly and make your first time special.

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The only thing you can do is talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. You said you didn't like anal but since you guys haven't had sex, have you ever tried it with anyone else? If not, then give it a try ( after you two have already had vaginal sex ) and see if you like it. Who knows, you might. But if you have tried it, tell him about that and how/why you don't like it.