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Do you fantasise about role playing rape?
Honestly I'm posting anon because we all knew there will be back lash because of this. I think it will create controversy as many women will have a different opinion or view.

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There's a difference between rape and being dominated and submissive.  Rape is a word that is known for unconsenting sex and forced.  Now being dominated by your SO  is a different story.  He can dirty talk and tie you up,  whips,  spanking etc etc. The level of roughness is on you.  But it's both consenting.  So the correct term you're looking for is bdsm.  Not rape.  And no judgement from me.  I like it all.  Doesn't matter.  But rape is not a word that you want to use with something that should be pleasure.

Also,  their are types of couples who the girl says she wants that "rape"  fantasy and can use that to turn on the guy and his life is ruined out of pettiness and immaturity.  So don't be ashamed of wanting to be rough or extra rough let your freak flag fly!

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I've been raped 4 times and almost gang raped. So no, it's not my thing. I do role play though. There's nothing wrong with pretending to be someone different, or acting out a scene. I enjoy rough sex and BDSM, but, there's a huge difference between that and role playing about rape. Obviously it's consensual sex, and if it's something you enjoy, I'm not gonna knock you for it. I just hope it's something you never have to actually go through.

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Not rape but really rough dominating sex 😍

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No. I've been raped and I know there's nothing glamorous or enjoyable about it. I'm not judging you if you enjoy thay fantasy, but it's not something I want to relive

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Domination? Yes
Rape? Heck no

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No, cause I was raped..

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I fantasise about my SO being a little rough with me but not "rape"

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I've been raped. There is nothing sexy or enjoyable about having your free will taken from you and being violated in every way.

I am absolutely judging ou if you partake and enjoy that fantasy. Ou have some serious internal exploration to do.

Rape is not a kink. Rape is a traumatic violent experience.

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No. It's a terrible thing to go through.

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Here's where I really don't understand myself. At all.

I have been raped for 14 years of my life starting when I was 3 till 17.

I have gotten therapy to cope with that.

It was not enjoyable once.

But with SO I wouldn't mind acting it out.

It makes me feel pretty disgusting, like I did want it, like some of those men say.

But I only want it with my SO, I think it's because finally trust someone completely and know he would never, even accidentally, hurt me. (And he is a big guy, 6'5 380ibs).

But at the same time I'm too afraid to admit that to him because he might think I wanted to be raped by all those men, (100+, sex slave for drugs, sold by father,) and would be a slut.

I know for a fact he wouldn't think that, but the thought is still there.

In short, yes I have rape fantasies, but no, they won't be acted out.

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