So basically last week my boyfriend of over 2 years came home from work and said he wasn't happy and no longer wanted to be with me, after a while of talking I said so are you going to pack some stuff and stay at yours dads tonight, he said yes but was in no hurry to do so, he then asked me if he could have a hug, I gave him one and he just broke down crying saying he doesn't want to leave but he needs more time to do his own things... Monday he goes to football, Wednesday he plays darts, Thursday is taekwondo and Sunday morning is golf.. How much more time does he need? And he said that he wants to live for the now rather than worry about the future (we were thinking a it getting a mortgage)