Partner watches porn

Why do women on here who watch it assume that those of us who don't are lying, especially when we say our husband's don't watch it either. Shockingly, my marriage is based on respect and we agree not to watch it. Others may still be respectful and those couples watch it. But I am sick of being bullied or told I am naive when I say we don't watch porn.

My hubby & I made a deal that we'd only watch it together ;)

Enjoy it with him 😍

I see it at cheating. Why look at other girls and get turned on by other girls/people having sex when he has you to look at/have Sex with?

I don't mind honestly. As long as we still are able to have a healthy sex life then I think it's okay.. It's when he starts bringing those ideals to the bedroom, or would rather watch it than have sex with me that I would have a problem. 

Men need visual stimulation to get off, and sometimes sex is just too tiring, so they masturbate with porn. Men also masturbate w/ porn as a personal time, relaxation time, or time to wind down from a long day. Masturbating is proven to be healthy for both men and women, and if men need visual stimulation I don't see the problem. Unless you'd rather take pictures or make a video of yourself that he can use (and only for him) I would try and cope. 

Neither my husband nor I watch porn for moral reasons. 

I actually don't know for a fact if my SO watches it but I assume he does. I feel like I really don't need to know about. As long as we have a good sex life and he's not choosing porn over me I don't really care. I can't be mad at him for doing something I do too!

Honestly, it doesn't bother me. He's not having sex with those women, just me. I fantasize about others too. It's only natural. Sometimes porn can even help spice things up in the bedroom.

I couldn't care less. I watch porn, I have impure thoughts about men I see out and about, why shouldn't he be allowed the same trust? He knows I'm not going to cheat on him, so why should I doubt him?