Disappointed. And questions.

Well I'm out. At least af came a little early instead of waiting and getting my hopes up! Honestly I feel the worst for my husband. When I told him he said "sorry I failed you again". I think he thinks it's his fault that I'm not pregnant. I try to reassure him that it could be anything. And that the % chance that a healthy couple gets pregnant is low as it is. But I know it's slowly getting to him and this is only our official third cycle trying. Any ideas on how to boost his self esteem? I compliment him daily but I think this is just one of those things that hurts their manhood, you know what I mean?