my husband and I had been talking about having another baby for a year or so, then we bought a house (in April). So we decided we wanted to be in the house for a year before we'd start trying. I was ok with that. After our open house (in July) he gave me the green light to have my IUD removed and was ok with us starting to try for #2. We got pregnant in September and lost that baby soon after. We were given the green light by the Dr and now my hubby says he has no drive and no real interest in"trying". He now says "if it happens it happens, I just don't want to have to have sex every day" (TMI WARNING - He has prostate problems so when he finishes,sometimes,it hurts him, so before we were actively trying, we'd only have sex 1 or twice a month). However, I know that once or twice isn't gonna cut it. What do I say to him? I want to try, and try again,but I also don't want to be insensitive to his needs.