My bf lives about an hour and a half away so we are kind of doing a long distance thing. I went away for Christmas and then after things seemed to change a bit. He tried to cancel on an evening after me not being able to see him for two weeks and I had to beg for him to show. Then a couple days later he went to a seminar that ended on a Sunday and he said that the earliest he could see me was Wednesday because he needed a couple days to recover? I asked if I could come down to him sooner and he agreed but canceled on me the day of because his place wasn't clean. So I told him that he can make the plans and if I don't push it I won't see him for a week and a half when we go to Colorado for little while. I know he's busy with work and I am too... I really want him to be oblivious instead of him making me less of a priority.