Crazy or not?

No their is no secrets in a marriage! Whats ur is mine and whats mine is... Mine lol jk,its hes too.

I never go through my SOs phone. I trust him 💯%. They way I see it, if you have to snoop through someone's phone, that means there's a lack of trust addressing that is going to be the best way to get over it...not snooping.

I never go through my SOs phone. The only time I even touch it is if he shows me something. Honestly, it's about trust

I feel like if you go searching for something you'll find it. I trust my husband, and would never feel the need to go through his phone.

No. I have been with my now husband for 4 years in March and I check it sometimes. Who doesn't?

Depends. If it's a boyfriend? It really depends on the situation. Husband? I think there's a little more leniency with that. Bottom line, yes I think it's ok to check every once and a while. But I don't think you need to be sneaky about it. Enough of this "if you can't trust him why are you with him" crap. Trust takes work and transparency. People who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. It doesn't need to be the big deal people make it into.

It really depends.... What's your purpose? If you're just using his phone or looking at his phone yeah there's no problem we look at each other's phones all the time.... But if you're going through it with the purpose of trying to check on him or see if he's cheating the that's a little crazy..... 

Not at all. I have an open phone policy in my relationship.

Not crazy at all..better to be sage than sorry..keep checking.... My aunt is one of those silly " don't snoop if you trust your man" well she's been married 29 years and after finally deciding to join the snoop club she found out her husband purchased a home for his mistress and they have 2 teenage children..she was oblivious BC she "trusted" smh. ..you should always look from time to time