My husband and I are trying to conceive but I just have no sex drive. It's painful when we have sex cause he, like a lot of men, just wants to jump right in and not give me time to get warmed up and wet. It's just so frustrating because he is literally the most handsome & attractive man to me and he feels like I don't find him attractive when I don't wanna have sex cause I know how it "ends" I guess you could say. Him turned on and ready to go & me not wet yet. He tries to work on it & tries to get me wet SOMETIMES after I tell him how I feel and he only does that like once. Then it's back to the same old same old taking my pants off and trying to stick it in immediately