I work 10 hour days as a nanny and then come home make dinner and that's my life everyday . I haven't been able to afford a gym and I have recently moved so I'm far from my friends could my lack of having an outlet or something I can focus my energy on be part of my issue in my relationship. Am I putting too much focus and pressure on him to be effective eyrjing in my life I'm giving him an impossible thing to live up to ? i. Just trying to understand why our sex life is so terrible right now maybe if he saw me have more independence and doing my own things he would be more attracted to me and miss me more wince were together all the time ? Help I just don't know what to do . He's staying at his mom's to give me a break to figure out if we are going to go out separate ways or continue our relationship . I just need advice n