I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant with our 2nd and to be honest I'm in a emotionally abusive controlling relationship that I've kinda just dealt with for the sake of the children but now I'm so over it. His words used to affect me and hurt me and now I just don't care. His always in a grumpy depressed mood and is so childish when his upset I sit down and ask him if we can tak it out and why husbandry and instead he stays silent and ignores me like a child. He doesn't let me see my family I haven't seen them in a year and he ran into my dad yesterday and my dad said he was going to see my mother (used her name) so he comes home all shitty and hasn't spoken to me in 2 days because he heard my mothers name. How immature. I feel like I'm finally over his shit I just needed to vent out because this is just ridiculous  now I'm sick of living a unhappy life would my children rather have a family where their mum is always depressed and picked on or would they rather having a happy single mum. Our daughter is now scared of him and cries a lot if he raises his voice or tells her 'no' which she never used to act like this with him. If he gets angry she runs to me and hides her face in my neck and that made me realise maybe it's time to go.