So recently my husband has not been helping out around the house a lot, not paying attention to me or the things I talk to him about, or helping with kids. I have asked and pointed out things he can do with no improvement. I'm constantly having to do dishes, cook, plan things, take care of kids, etc. we literally have a pile of clothing 3 feet tall and 4 foot long and 2 feet wide of dirty laundry because he refuses to do any and when he does it's just his clothes so he has something to wear. The house is a disaster, the kids are on my last nerve from always having to deal with them. I'm not sure what to do! I'm so over whelmed and need a break and just want my hubby to step up and just take care of it all just for a week so I can relax. Any suggestions?