Okay I understand there are a lot of things that can be done during and after pregnancy but please if you have never had a child do not give me advice. I'm very irritated could just be my hormones but I feel as if everyone likes to judge the decisions I'm makin for my child and myself. When I told my best friend who by the way has never been pregnant that I plan on having an epidural her reaction was very annoyin. She said and I quote "Ew don't you know you can gain back problems from getting that and also why would you want drugs in your body while giving birth . Doin it naturally would be so much better for your baby don't be selfish just because you don't want to feel pain". I swear I lost it and told her to do whatever she wants when she has a kid no need to judge me and my decision.