He hasn't been in his life since he was born and then he decided to come around this lady December it had only been a month since he has been in his life and now he just wants to take him whenever he wants and whenever he wants and I tell him no so I went and got an attorney and are doing all the paper work for that.. Would you agree to just let him have whatever he wants for visitation or would you limit it because he has only been in his life for a month.. Also how do I deal with him when all we do it gift and argue... Please please help me!