High risk question! Over 35, multiple miscarriages

🌈 Jennifer 🌈 • Blessed with a 3yo girl born 9/12. Missed miscarriage 4/15 & blighted ovum 10/15. Waiting on our rainbow due 9/16.
I've had 3 miscarriages and 1 successful pregnancy and baby. 2 of the miscarriages happened in less than a year in 2015. I'm also almost 36 (next month).  I'm currently pregnant again, 5 weeks 2 days. I have spoken with the nurse and have been prescribed progesterone which I've been taking for about a week and a half. 
My doctor doesn't typically see you for an appointment until 8-9 weeks and 1st ultrasound at 12.
I made my first appointment for 9 weeks but I'm really anxious for an earlier ultrasound. I haven't spoken with the doctor, only scheduling for the appointment and the nurse for the progesterone. 
I feel like I should be seen earlier as I'm technically considered high risk due to my age and miscarriage history. 
Anyone have a similar situation? And what is your doctor doing for you?