I want to please my man as much as he pleases me but when the time comes for me to take control I get self conscious and my mind talks me out of everything I want to do to him . He tells me all the time he enjoys everything that I do but I still can't get over it . We've been together over a year now and I love him with everything in me I feel like I shouldn't be this way . Has anyone else felt this way and gotten over it ? Please help !!!!