Loosing weight to help relationship?

Question

Has anyone ever felt like maybe their significant other wasn't attracted to them anymore so sex became really infrequent ? If so an you lost weight did it make them desire you more ?

Answer

Well, it depends. You should never do something to your body ONLY to please your partner.

But lets say you weren't happy with your body. Some people get depressed about that kind of thing and your partner definitely notices that. They should at least. That can affect your relationship a lot. You might not have as much energy or passion as you used to when you weren't obsessing over your weight and body. That can take a toll on a relationship for sure.

If you start going to the gym, eating right.. Etc. You WILL guaranteed feel better about yourself and your mood will improve. Your sex drive might see a boost as well. Your partner will notice a change in your demeanor and might see you as attractive and desirable once again.

In conclusion, getting a healthy body and mind can improve personal relationships. To a point. Your question was very broad and you didn't give any details so this is my best answer. If your partner simply demands that you transform into a woman with a Victoria secret body... That's a problem and I'd think they are a bit shallow.

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My ex was very controlling with my weight. If he noticed I had gained a few pounds he would dictate what I ate and made me go to the gym until I lost it again and made sure I was always under a specific weight decided by him. Looking back on it I regret losing weight to make him happy. If he really loved me then he would love me at any size. Don't ever change yourself to please someone else.

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My husband and i met when I was at my heaviest... I've since lost 50 lbs (before I got pregnant) so I know he wouldn't care either way. I might feel not good about myself if I ever went back there... But as long as we are both healthy, who cares??

Loosing weight to help relationship?

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