I was just told by 2 of my friends that they are planning my shower!! This is my third child, but my youngest is 6 and I've never even had shower before. I'm so excited, thankful and grateful! Here's my question, what do I need to do? I hate leaving everything up to other people, or expect anyone to do things for me, so what can I do to help? What makes a great shower recipient? Haha I know it sounds silly, just want to make sure I don't miss anything on my part!