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I invited my daugthers father to her birthday party I dream a couple of days ago that me his wife and him got along very well I know is just a dream but since that day I been thinking about I don't have any type of feelings for Him only respect and to reconize as the father oh my child so This morning I text him and invited him and his new family meaning (his wife and secong daugther) to my daugthers birthday I hope he or she don't take it the wrong I'm really trying to fix the relationship with him for our daugther I already have my boyfriend and we love each other so much I only want my daugther to feel love from both sides I know she will be so happy to at least spend a couple of minutes  with her dad on her birthday party what do you guys think? Would you do something like that or what would you do to try to have a nice relationship with your ex I'm not pretending to be his bestfriend but just respect between us and trying our best to race our baby girl.. We been already separated for 4 years we were together for 7 years and got married now we currently have our own partners I don't see why we can't get along we always fight but I'm really trying my best to fix everything

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Me and my sons father are like that. We always do birthdays together and we have an awesome relationship. Me and his gf get along great and him and my bf get along great as well. We even invited him and his gf to our house for the weekend and went canoeing together And what not. My son loves it and so I do. Things go so much smoother for us all!

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I think that is awesome me and my sons dads wife ended up becoming good friends we go out to eat talk for hours we all work together it's best for the child and feels so much better than having dumb drama!!

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This is the most mature post I've read in a while. Good for you for doing what's best for your child. You are a great example! 👏🏼 hope everything works out :)

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Its always good when parents can get along. We do birthday parties ,go to shool events, and go to my step daughter's activies together. We dont have a good relationship with my SO's ex but we all show up and just get along for daughters  sake. It makes things easier for her and she seems to like having all of us there for those things. As much as my SO and i dont want to be around his ex its more important to us to be there for daughter and see her happy and that makes us happy.

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Hi guys I'm kind of dissapointed his wife texted me she told me they will not feel comfortable going any place with my family around she wasn't rude and I understand her point I guess its gonna take time to fix the comunications between us At least I try my best and gave the first step now is up to them thank you so much for your replys ❤️

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I think it's great to have a good coparenting relationship between everyone involved in the child(ren)'s life!

I have a couple questions though, if you don't mind answering... Is your ex in your daughter's life currently? Or did you randomly invite them, after a lengthy time with no contact? How old is your daughter?

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That sounds awesome! Co-parenting is so much easier when everyone can get along for the sake of the child. Hopefully they are willing to work on the relationship as well. I'm sure your daughter will really appreciate it.

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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I love it! My parents are all friends and it makes my life so much easier. It'll make your daughter feel so special to know that everyone is putting her needs first and not letting a relationship that she had nothing to do with ruin her special day. Congrats! And I hope it works out for all of you!

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I think it's a good idea. My brother and his daughters mother have been having joint birthday parties for her at a neutral place. She absolutely loves having her whole family together for her big day.

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I'd just straight up tell him what your intentions are. He may be feeling the same way.

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