HELP?

I have a friend who's about 22 weeks pregnant. Keep in mind im only 5 weeks (last pregnancy was a miscarriage) we are both married. Whenever her husband goes to the field (military) she'll ask me to do things for her when she's closest to the location herself. Im already planning her baby shower. She never does a good deed for us or extends her hand to help me. I understand everyone is different but she could at least be considerate of my rainbow pregnancy. Not to mention, she has no pregnancy complications. HELP??