For a while now my husband and i have quick sex due to not really having time for it but even when we do, he doesn't take his time. he's just like bam & done. Where i wanna take our time & enjoy in. Roll play or tease you kno, the feel loved while having sex type. I'm not sure how to get him in the mood for that, I've even tried sucking him, doing 69 & its still bam & done when he gets it in. I just want slow making sex!! How can i get my man on board with this!?!?!?