My mother had my brother at a very young age and then had me at 20 years old. She didn't/doesn't want me to follow in her footsteps for falling pregnant at a young age and certain ally not with the right guy. We would celebrate my birthday like usual but then also celebrate my not being pregnant. There was nothing I wanted more than to make my mum proud of me. I was sexually active at a young age (something I do regret) but I'm 22 now 23 this year and my other half is wanting to have babies (he's 26) and his dad is eager to have more grandchildren also so I have him (his dad) telling me every time he sees me to have babies. But then my mother, is telling me no I shouldn't. Maybe she is just stuck in her ways for keep saying no after so many years of celebrating me not being pregnant. I know that if it was to happen she would be over the moon for me, I think it's just because I'm her baby and it's like me properly growing up.