just want to vent
I recently ended a four year relationship because I wanted to play the field a bit and find my independence. I met a guy a few months later who had just recently (like a few days before) ended a long-term LDR and we immediately connected.
for the next four months or so we were inseparable, although not exclusively committed to each other. we both thought that it wouldn't really make sense for us to jump right into a new relationship after we both just became single. at the time, we were living in the same city and I was sometimes seeing other guys but he always told me that he was only seeing me.
anyways, I'll be in another country for the next few months. since I left him in the USA, we've been FaceTiming every night and it's been wonderful. I've been in a couple different situations with guys where it could have escalated but I didn't let it because I really only want to be with him. which was a cool, and surprising, thing to discover
but last night I found out that he's slept with someone else in the two weeks since I left. obviously it wasn't "against the rules" but I'm sad about it.
I told him I'd rather just revisit things when I return to the US if he wants to mess around with other people. but he wants to continue talking everyday.. which would be fine if he could also tell me that he doesn't want to sleep with anyone else. but I don't think he wants to make that commitment.
blegh
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