Insecurities

Evangeline🌙 • 22 • pro choice / love my pooch
After having my babe 5 months ago I feel really insecure about my breasts. They went from A to B (not bad), I know. They're small, BUT they sag.. They aren't as perky anymore (even if at all). I'm scared my boyfriend won't like them anymore because of the sag. Or will he even care? 🙁
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Ju

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My husband doesn't care. Eventually when I'm done having kids I want to get my breasts done. 

Je

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I've had saggy boobs since I gave birth to my first son 12 years ago. I'm a big C, small D. I can tell you it makes no difference. My husband is always coping a feel whether I'm clothed or not. He jokes it helps him relieve stress. If your boyfriend can't see the beauty in your post baby body then he isn't with you for the right reasons.

Fr

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They're boobs! They exist to feed babies. If your man doesn't like you anymore because your breasts have changed slightly, then he's ridiculous. If you don't like yourself anymore because your breasts have changed slightly, you have been trained too well by the media and our crazy culture that somehow having "nice" boobs makes you "better". Which is really weird. I hate that we do this to women. "You'd be 'better' if you lost five pounds, or had less skin, or didn't have cellulite or had narrower hips, or a bigger butt..." No you wouldn't. None of that is very important. And tastes change all the time. 

Ev

Evangeline🌙 • Jan 24, 2016
I know that, haha. And that's interesting, huh

Fr

Frieda • Jan 24, 2016
Yeah, boobs don't sag because you breastfeed. They sag because of pregnancy. Breastfeeding apparently doesn't make them saggier than not breastfeeding. Apparently the French have determined that wearing bras makes your boobs sag though...

Ev

Evangeline🌙 • Jan 24, 2016
It's not because of media. It's because they were not at all saggy before. They aren't appealing to MY eyes. That isn't weird. I'm human. And my child is formula fed haha

To

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Omg! I hear you. My boobs look pitiful. Saggy, stretch mark covered....I told my husband that when I'm done having and feeding my babies I'm getting a boob job to get them back where they belong!

Br

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I feel you, I stand in the mirror and lift my arm and am like "yup, that's where they use to be" lol oh well I do the exercises and it helps but I just tell myself weather it's childbirth or old age they'll sag eventually anyways 

Ca

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Exercise! 

Kr

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My boyfriend says boobs are boobs lol. When we started dating I already had my first 2 and he loved my saggy boobs! Now that we're having our own child my boobs are giant and perky again and needless to say he's one happy guy lol 

Am

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Boobies are boobies and he should love you no matter what changed your body goes through. 😊