CONTRACEPTION PROBLEM ?

angel
i've had to stop using birth control because i was becoming into a hormonal mess and it was ruining my relationship so i'm currently using condoms / not even having sex because it's not great so what is the best contraceptive to use ??? should i just try and switch my birth control ?? or idk what to do because me & my partner both have a high sex drive and i just want to make sure i'm safe and that it's good for both of us