I broke up with my bf last week due to the long distance, and both of our current career priorities in this moment. I still have feelings for him but at the same time I know he is not not the kind of guy I want to marry. However, I feel a great sadness in my heart and miss him a lot. In fact, I can't  stop thinking about him. I contact him last night but he doesn't want to talk. Please help!!! Any advice?