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My boyfriend wants a baby.

He has told me multiple times now he wants me to get pregnant and for me to carry his child, and whilst I would love to have children with him, I can't.

I know I can't, we're both 16, and whilst we are mature, neither of us are financially stable and live with our parents.

But he is not making this easy for me.

I have PCOS, so with my hormones encouraging me to try for a baby, and him telling me how he would be extatic, I am in a mental battle with myself.

I want to wait until we are financially stable and are married, but everything in me is encouraging me to have a baby.

I have kittens, I've had puppies, I've had younger siblings, nothing helps.

I want my own child, and it's making me crazy. I don't want to be a mum yet, and I know it's not likely going to happen as I ovulate maybe twice a year, but it's not stopping my body from going into a mass fever of maternal instincts.

Help?

What can I do?

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