Why am I so jealous?

Question

I hate that I'm so jealous!  My fiance will look at a video of something and it has a half naked chic in it.  I know that sounds so stupid, I think it does. He lies about it is why I get so upset. I mean it's not porn!  Why am I like this?  I want to stop being so jealous but it's hard. Why is something like this I want to change so difficult.

Answer

Jealousy is healthy. It means you care. As long as its just actresses its ok. When you start being jealous of his friendships thats when its a problem. Thats what im going through right now.. I just dont know how to approach the situation without upsetting him.

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Im very jealous too! I can barely watch movies with actresses that my fiance likes. He watches A Lot of porn tho so i honestly think he undresses women with his eyes and imagines them in a sexual way if he looks at another girl. I recently caught him searching for a girl he used to be interested in on fb and that made me feel pretty shitty so my jealousy went up a little bit. He's always asking for a threesome to which makes me feel like im not good enough for him. I tried a lot of things to deal with it and have always been jealous. Youre not theonly  one. I hate being this way to. And so does he, unfortunately. But sometimes i think Maybe i just havent found someone to make me feel secure enough so i dont have to be jealous anymore.

Why am I so jealous?

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