Age gaps😬😬😬

Jessica
I'm 16 and the guy I'm talking to is 21...he's the sweetest guy iv ever talked to! He hold the door and tells guys to back off and he does not push me to do anything... In Michigan 16 is the legal age of consent but I know my parents won't be ok with this...we want to date and we both care about eachother so much but I don't want to make him look bad and I don't want my family to hate him please i don't know what to do! 😐😫😬