After 9 months of charting, temping, sex every other day, preseed and everything else you can think of, we finally got pregnant the ONE month that we decided to not try, and only had sex ONE time. Not sure how it happened. But I am in shock! AF wasn't due until Saturday and I have been having some spotting and cramping, I went to buy tampons thinking it was just my period coming a little early. Something told me to take a test and I was in complete disbelief when I saw a positive. God is so good.