Just Ranting
Dear vile creature,
I can't say all this to you without you lashing back, and sadly, when you lash out you use your own daughter, so imma say it here. You disgust me.
What kind of mother are you? You might have given birth, but you damn sure don't love your kid, and definitely don't deserve the title "mommy".
You KNOW that you've broken that little girl's heart. And you're ok with that.
You know what she asked my husband today? Do you know what came out of your innocent child's mouth today? "Daddy...why don't you love me anymore?"
Good God...6 words. 6 WORDS to make a grown man cry.
You were out to hurt him. Mission successful. Are you happy with yourself?
You have convinced a 6 year old little girl that the daddy she adored doesn't love her or want her anymore. And not just that, you kept her away from her Nana and Popops. Her uncles and aunts that love and adore her aren't allowed to see her. I heard the stories. Last time they got to see her, she didn't even want to hug them because she was scared she'd get in trouble with you.
I bet she doesn't know he calls every single day. I bet she doesn't know that you ignore the call, or tell him he's not allowed to talk to her. I bet she doesn't know he sends you an extra $100 a week, on top of his child support. I bet she doesn't know that he begs you constantly for visitation, only to be told no. I bet she doesn't know that her Nana and Popops still have all her things ready, in the hopes they get to see her again...she doesn't know that you've broken an entire family's heart.
No. What she "knows" is that she only gets to talk to him for 10 minutes once a week. What she knows is that she hasn't seen him since January. What she knows is that her mommy says that he left them because he doesn't love them anymore, and that he has a new wife that he loves instead. She thinks that her Nana doesn't care anymore, and got rid of all her things.
You're a sick person.
I see the pictures you post of her on instagram. She doesn't smile anymore. She doesn't draw pretty pictures like she used to all the time. She says you took away her guitar...the one that she and daddy used to play together...she looks so serious. So grown up. Not at all like the sweet little girl she should be...she used to be.
You are ruining a beautiful soul.
Just because you and him didn't work out.
I don't know what else to say to you.
None of it matters.
You don't care.
You'll keep doing it, and there's nothing we can do. We love that little girl. And we're going to keep fighting for her. You'll see. And you know what? when we get custody of her...we WONT do what you did. If you care enough to call, she will always be able to talk to you. You want visitation...well. we will be there during the entire time, but we will not stop you from seeing your daughter.
Because we LOVE that little girl, and she loves you. So we will never, EVER try to take her away from her mommy. Unlike you, we care. We never want to make her feel unloved, unwanted, or like she has to hate her parent just because we can't stand You.
That's called being loving parents. Something you know nothing about.
Let's Glow!
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