Does anybody feel the same 😢

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I can't stop crying I'm so overprotective that I don't want anybody taking my baby or holding her. 
I think I have servere attachment issues.
Everyone visiting and I just want my bonding time.
 MIL down visiting for 2 days and I can't bare her lifting her all the time staring at her constantly saying its her family etc!
 I know I sound like a prat and selfish but it's my baby I want time alone with her by myself.
 I can't wait for everyone just to disappear and leave me alone with her!
 I cry at the silliest things at the moment and when I start I can't seem to stop!

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I feel the same way! Especially right after I gave birth. My son is 3 weeks now and my MIL is visiting for a week and in praying I can keep it together and not let my crazy show lol. She just got here today and has hogged him all day and I'm just like "I want my baby back!" Now the rational side of me knows she's just happy and I'm glad he has family that loves him. But I think it's natural for us to feel this way in the beginning.

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I couldn't stand my mil being around my son!!! All she would say was how he looke like her family...im not a fan of hers anyway...but kids made it waaay worse😂😂😂

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Omg same thing happened to me with both my pregnancies.  Super anxious and didn't want anyone to touch them!  Even family. I just wanted to be left alone and I was so afraid someone would get her sick :(. Those feelings do pass. It took me a good three weeks this time to not feel that way.... I totally get it.  It's our hormones

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I'm actually glad to know its not just me.

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Same here

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I felt the same way for the first week, but now at a little over two weeks, I'm feeling much better. This was a weird experience for me, as I didn't feel that way at all with my son.

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I believe this is totally normal. I hated when people would take my son or hold him when he was born. I just wanted them to give him back to me and leave him alone. I have been getting very anxious thinking about people taking this baby when he is born and he isn't even here yet. 40 weeks 2 days :-/

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You are not a brat and you are not selfish!!! My baby is 4 weeks Today and I am just now beginning to be comfortable with the idea of people visiting to see her.
I was so pissed when my hubby had his friend come to the hospital with his girlfriend the day after I gave birth- I'm still getting to know my munchkin! I wanted to enjoy m baby! Not anyone else!! 
It's your baby, your desire to spend one on one time with her is totally normal- you need to create that bond. 
Just know that all those annoying people making baby voices at your little one love them too:)

Does anybody feel the same 😢

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