C-section! Ugh!

Okay ladies I'm pregnant with baby number two! I'm not due till march 4th, and was going to go for a VBAC, but I was put in the hospital a few days ago with bleeding and cramping, my blood pressure went up too 170 over 123, they where scared I was gonna stroke or have to remove him at that point, but things got better and it went down and I was released, but now I'm scheduled to have my second c-section on the 12th of February and I'm slightly freaking out about how soon that is.... Am I being paranoid? Anyone else go through something like this? It's scary!