I don't know if I'm being fair.

Kayla
So I've been with my bf for 4 yrs now and he is the only guy I've every had sex with. Well recently we've been talking about marriage more frequently and it got me thinking that I really wish I would've waited until I was married to have sex. I told him this and said I don't want to have sex anymore until our wedding night. He supports me and has respected that choice and I feel like by pushing some of the physical stuff aside we have been able to connect more emotionally. But the other night he was making some off handed comments as if he never "gets any" anymore when he was with his buddies. So I'm wondering if it's fair to him that I have made this choice after so long or do you think it's a good thing?