So we did what we did, and layed down and relaxed... Talked... Hes one of those tough guys that likes to choke and pull hair, far from anything im used too, which he didnt understand. Kept telling me id never be able to handle him, and never be able to deal with it... I said thats not neccesarily how it is.... Just some things a girl isnt used too and the only way to change it is too try it... So we saw each other again, but before going to his apartment he told me he would attack me once i got inside. So once i walked in the door, he took my keys, phone and drink from me, and tossed me onto his bed (temporarily an air mattress), and literally yanked my pants off and wouldn't let me move. Fighting against it, only makes him worse, so i tried not too.... Lol. (Im laughing at this as im typing so please dont think of it as a bad thing), but after all that, he asked me when our date was and i told him on saturday when the both of us were off from work... Saturday came around and i asked him if we still had a date for the day, and all he could say was "im not feeling like my self right now, im sorry" so i told him how i felt... And that was it...... It doesnt take a lot to make me happy, so with the little laughing and smiling that he made me do, it made me really happy... Thats one of the ways to get hurt the quickest... Ive learned my lesson, to say the least....