So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years (with only one break up.. that was almost a year ago that we got back together) and over the past year we have argued SO much. And it's usually at night over anything and everything. We fight about fighting. (And most of the time it starts becquse I try and say something to him and he falls asleep or ignores me and other things get brought in and it just goes downhill from there lol) But the arguments always end up the same: I'm upset about something, he doesn't pay attention or show any effort to care, I get even more upset & he starts calling me emotional and a dramatic brat and that just makes me start crying ... Then we get nowhere. Both of us are extremely hard-headed and I feel like we just butt heads all the time. We love each other very much and we've said neither of us are going to ever give up on us. But I just feel so helpless with the arguing, like somehow I'm always wrong and my feelings don't count because "I'm being emotional". I'm tired of fighting.