She told him that if he ever drives to visit me at college (8 hours away) again she will take him out of college, put him in community college, take his car and tell my parents a secret that will first upset them and secondly make me mad at him/his mom so that i wouldnt want to date him. We are 19 shouldnt it be his choice we both live at college. Isnt this a bit extreme his major is offered at community college ao he wouldnt get a career he would want and he would lose our relationship. Opinions?