LETS BE HONEST

I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this question but some very honest insight is really needed.

I've been with my husband just about 4 years and lately due to my insomnia my husband kinda falls asleep before me A LOT!!!! By the time I wind down and get in the "mood" he is out cold and he is a hard sleeper even oral takes a while to wake him up. Needless to say I spend a lot of time "playing my own piano". I'm starting to consider buying a toy should I tell my husband? Is that taking it too far?