I had a coworker come to me this night being friendly , asking me about who am I and of course the "do you have children" question came up. I told her no, hoping she wouldn't say well why is that. She sure did and I told her it just isn't my time yet when God bless me with an full term pregnancy then I will have a child. She days oh so you misscarried, i told her yes. Hoping by now she would have some kind of common sense and leave the subject alone. Just when things couldn't get worst She said well are you married? I told her yes. For how long she asks I told her 5 years. She says well honey it's time for you to have children, I looked at her with total disbelief. I told her I had miscarriages and when the time is right I will have a child. She goes on to say well women who have miscarriage have a curse on them I looked at her and I was able to flip out on her and remembered that I was at work I just looked at her with pity. I couldn't believe she said that to me I am so highly upset and then she went on to say how us women want it too bad and that's why it doesn't work out and our body I'd rejecting the baby bc we are too desperate. I just had to walk away at that point but I noticed that I wasn't talking to a human being anymore. I am beyond pissed and I can't stop crying while at work. She just don't know how her words hurt me so badly and I would expect better for a nurse she has a medical degree where are her common sense. I just didn't know where to post this but I need someone to talk to.