my husband and I have two children, a few years ago we how to terminate pregnancy(very sensitive subject, but husband said we will try again in the future. ) well the future is here.

I so desperately want to have a third child.back in October we decided that in December I would be off the pill

. December 1st I went off the pill, and he panicked! now he avoids sex.every now and then he will make a comment how he doesn't want to have any more children.

I am absolutely devastated.I so desperately want a third child.before we were even married we both said they wanted three to four children, I know times change but my feeling on that hasn't.

so my question to you is,who do you think should "win",in a lack of better words.knowing you want a child so bad for you try for a third or stop at 2 because you know your husband doesn't....